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It'll take too long to type up everything and explain, but simply, if you have a speech impediment, and no one can ever understand a word you say, how do you get rid of it?

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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2012, 04:56:28 am »
It'll take too long to type up everything and explain, but simply, if you have a speech impediment, and no one can ever understand a word you say, how do you get rid of it?
Are you mumbling, stuttering, or something? Can you go a little more in-depth?

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« Reply #2 on: July 07, 2012, 05:06:15 am »
Are you mumbling, stuttering, or something? Can you go a little more in-depth?

It's a problem I've had ever since I can remember. It's just getting worse now since I'm in college and I know that getting a degree is useless if people can't understand a word I'm saying.

Apparently I talk too quietly, and speak way too fast, and start mumbling and slurring my words together and I don't even realize when I'm doing it. My dad's always yelling at me about it because he can't ever understand a word I'm saying. My aunt and my grandma have told my brother and dad (behind my back), that they can't ever understand a word I say. People are always asking me to repeat myself, and people a lot of times just get quiet and nod and stare at me acting like they knew what I said when in reality they didn't, but they didn't wanna make me feel bad by not telling me. And I try my best to be understood, but I never realize when I am running my words together, which apparently is 95% of the time. I think that might be my problem in job interviews. I try to speak loudly and stuff, but sometimes my words just don't come out right, and they're barely a whisper, and I've always been told that I'm too quiet. Again I don't realize it. It just seems like I'm speaking normally, when I'm really not. And I don't  know what to do about it.

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« Reply #3 on: July 07, 2012, 06:00:57 am »
Well there is always stuttering therapy. Professional and self help. Just try goole-ing it. It comes up with a ton of results, even a few pdf guides on how to approach it.

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« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2012, 06:04:53 am »
Well there is always stuttering therapy. Professional and self help. Just try goole-ing it. It comes up with a ton of results, even a few pdf guides on how to approach it.

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I don't stutter, though. It's completely different from stuttering, but hmm...

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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #5 on: July 07, 2012, 06:53:27 am »
See a speech pathologist.

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« Reply #6 on: July 07, 2012, 07:15:30 am »
speak louder and clearer.
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« Reply #7 on: July 07, 2012, 02:00:30 pm »
Why not describe the problem as opposed to just saying you have a "speech impediment". No one can really help you if you just call it such a broad thing.

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I've found myself that sometimes I speak too fast, I both clutter and stutter (the former a lot more than the latter); oftentimes to help alleviate the problem I stop myself, and try to figure out how to say what I want (sometimes saying the word "words" helps me indicate to my friends that I'm having a problem). I also have a really bad problem with expressing myself well in speech so slowing down helps there, even if you sound a bit retarded lol. If you need to do something that requires you to not sound like that, practice.
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« Reply #8 on: July 07, 2012, 02:51:54 pm »
Smoke some dope and chill out about it.
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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #9 on: July 11, 2012, 06:39:45 am »
See a speech pathologist.

I may try that, but Idk if that will help.. I may just have to try reading aloud a lot.

speak louder and clearer.

Easier said than done. I try, but it doesn't work very well. People have told me that me speaking "loud" is barely normal tone.

Why not describe the problem as opposed to just saying you have a "speech impediment". No one can really help you if you just call it such a broad thing.

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I've found myself that sometimes I speak too fast, I both clutter and stutter (the former a lot more than the latter); oftentimes to help alleviate the problem I stop myself, and try to figure out how to say what I want (sometimes saying the word "words" helps me indicate to my friends that I'm having a problem). I also have a really bad problem with expressing myself well in speech so slowing down helps there, even if you sound a bit retarded lol. If you need to do something that requires you to not sound like that, practice.
Are there times that you don't realize when you're doing it? A lot of times, I don't realize it until after the words come out, and then everyone just looks at me like I'm stupid because they can't understand a word I'm saying. I'll try the slowing down thing, when I do realize it. I've done that before, it's just catching myself that's part of the problem. But thank you for the advice.

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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #10 on: July 11, 2012, 12:42:54 pm »
I may try that, but Idk if that will help.
It will, for reasons you've described here:
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Easier said than done. I try, but it doesn't work very well. People have told me that me speaking "loud" is barely normal tone.
Are there times that you don't realize when you're doing it? A lot of times, I don't realize it until after the words come out, and then everyone just looks at me like I'm stupid because they can't understand a word I'm saying. I'll try the slowing down thing, when I do realize it. I've done that before, it's just catching myself that's part of the problem. But thank you for the advice.

You may not have any specific affliction inhibiting your speech, but you do have an unconscious manner of speaking that, for reasons that may be either psychological or physiological, has developed in such a way that it impedes conversation. You know, like a speech impediment. What a speech pathologist is able to do, trained to do, is identify the specific aspects of your manner of speaking that interfere with communication. Whether or not it's a "disorder" per se, it's a physiological problem that's manifesting itself in your vocal tract--and a speech pathologist will almost certainly be able to put you on the right track to speaking clearly and, more importantly, comfortably.
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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #11 on: July 11, 2012, 01:38:02 pm »
Are there times that you don't realize when you're doing it? A lot of times, I don't realize it until after the words come out, and then everyone just looks at me like I'm stupid because they can't understand a word I'm saying. I'll try the slowing down thing, when I do realize it. I've done that before, it's just catching myself that's part of the problem. But thank you for the advice.
I don't realize it a lot of the time but that might be accounted for because of my other diagnosis (since I'm not aware of a lot of other stuff I do that's technically not right).

Usually people are aware a lot of the problem though but not all of it, which is why you should get it checked out and identified by a professional. If you're fully aware of everything though it helps a lot and can help you correct behaviours you didn't even know you were doing. That way, even if you don't want to go through therapy (or can't), you can at least catch yourself in the act.
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Re: I don't fill like going into a big long thing about this, but...
« Reply #12 on: July 24, 2012, 07:53:21 pm »
It'll take too long to type up everything and explain, but simply, if you have a speech impediment, and no one can ever understand a word you say, how do you get rid of it?

You can't Speech classes can help a bit though. I wish I kept on with them sometimes.
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